Testing Hello? Is this on? 😉 So good to be back to blogging after a lovely holiday.
Yeah, you know it’s been almost a month since I blogged here. But, checking my past posts, I realised I’ve been blogging about once a month for the last 6 months on this blog, so yay for consistency! 😀
Anyway, I had this whole big ‘plan’ about what should be my first post after a really long vacation and while I have that kind of sorted for my other blog, this one is more of a set of musings on what I loved during the break.
It has been a long time since I took a long break. And I mean a LOOOOONG time. The last long vacation I took (anything more than 3 weeks qualifies as one), was in 2010 when I visited the US for 3 months. This year’s trip (again to the US) was my second one to that country and lasted about 7 weeks.
But, man! The experience was so very very different. So let me dive in.
Not much of a plan
You may know that I am a ‘plan things down to the last minute’ kinda gal. However, I threw everything out the window with this trip (save the actual booking of the tickets and the packing of the suitcases/weighing them, of course). I had no plans.
My whole aim (or lack of aim) was to let myself go where the days took me. And it all worked out beautifully. I actually let other people plan my days and what do you know, it worked great!
From a hop on-hop off Bus tour at NYC to a visit to Hershey’s Chocolate factory in Pennsylvania; from the museums and memorials at Washington DC to the Science Museum of St Louis, I am pretty amazed at how much we covered. My Google photo albums are bursting at the seams with pictures and smiles.
Being with family and friends
But the really beautiful part of the trip? It was the amount of time I got to spend with family. If you’ve grown up in India in the 80s and 90s, you’d recall the time we used to visit cousins over the summer and just spend all day lolling about, doing nothing but watch TV, play games and fool around.
Gy got such a wonderful dose of that and was royally spoilt by all the love everywhere and for once, I am not complaining. Years later, these are the memories she will remember with fondness and joy. (Not sharing pictures with the family, because, well, this is a public blog).
Let’s not forget about the chance to visit two dear blogging friends who opened their homes to us without a second thought. There’s got to be a word for that but I find myself unable to articulate it at this moment. To be welcomed into someone’s home and to be treated like close family is priceless and I was touched and overwhelmed to have that on my trip.
Taking the time to read again
I know how this sounds and I don’t mean to come off as sanctimonious or anything, but I really took the time to read books again the way they ought to be read. Not to tick off a number on a challenge or to specifically read books that other people are reading, but to just lose myself in reading for its own sake.
That was one thing I absolutely adored about my trip: access to the free public libraries. Although I only visited about 3 of these libraries on my trip I was amazed by how much it reminded me of a time before social media and being online. Let’s not forget the Barnes and Noble stores either. Those were equally delightful.
Not having any regular chores to do meant that I could pick up a book, guilt-free, and read endlessly on a given day. That meant more than any well-planned, down-to-the-minute vacation I have ever taken.
Taking time off from work and social media
I can’t remember the last time I just switched off my laptop or didn’t check in to social media during a vacation. Of course, even on this trip I did share pictures off and on via Facebook but that need to constantly update my whereabouts (which to be honest I used to do a lot of, a few years ago), just vanished.
Instead I took the time to observe people around me.
I watched families bonding over meals. I watched kids laughing uncontrollably over a secret joke. I revelled in the warmth of freshly laundered sheets, just taken out of the dryer. I kicked back and watched movies that made no sense but that made me laugh uncontrollably.
For reference please watch ‘The Flying Jatt’. Nothing will make sense ever again and you will lose 2 hours of your life that you will never get back. Plus it’s physically painful to watch Tiger Shroff trying to make his face move when it cannot. But still, worth a laugh or two. 😉
All told, this may be the most memorable trip for a number of reasons and I am truly, deeply grateful to my husband, my job and my family in the US for making it possible.
Here’s looking forward to more such trips and more time with the people who matter.